How We Planned a Multi-Country South America Trip With Kids
How We Planned a Multi-Country South America Trip With Kids
The real planning process behind our Chile, Peru and Brazil family adventure: how we sequenced the route, protected recovery, and decided which destinations earned their place.
Planning a multi-country trip through South America with children can look completely overwhelming from the outside. There are countries to choose between, flights that cross enormous distances, different currencies, different climates, altitude to think about, internal connections to organise, luggage to manage and children whose energy levels do not always cooperate with the itinerary you have spent months creating.
Then there is the question that sits underneath everything else: can you actually make a complicated South America itinerary work when you are travelling as a family?
We wondered the same thing. Our answer, after travelling from Australia with our two children, was yes, but only because we learned that planning a multi-country family trip is not about trying to fit as many destinations as possible into one holiday. It is about building the right sequence.
Our 2026 South America adventure took us from Australia to Chile, Peru and Brazil before returning through Chile to Australia. Along the way, we travelled through the Atacama Desert, Cusco, the Sacred Valley, Machu Picchu, the Peruvian Amazon, São Paulo, the Pantanal and Jericoacoara. It was ambitious. It was sometimes exhausting. There were complicated travel days, early flights, tight connections and moments when we wondered whether we had tried to do too much.
But there were also experiences we could never have created by staying in one place. Our children saw landscapes unlike anything they had known at home, experienced the Amazon, watched wildlife in the Pantanal, explored ancient places, encountered different cultures and foods, and became part of a journey that stretched far beyond the usual family holiday.
This is how we planned it. Not as a perfect itinerary, and not as a generic ten-day South America itinerary. As a real family trip, with real children, real travel days and all the compromises that come with trying to experience a continent as large and diverse as South America.
- We were not planning one holiday
- Step 1: Start with the experiences, not the flights
- Step 2: Build the route around the geography
- Step 3: Does each destination earn its place?
- Step 4: Plan around the children, not just the map
- Step 5: Treat altitude as a planning issue
- Step 6: Accept that climate changes affect packing
- Step 7: Plan the major flights first
- Step 8: Look at the entire travel day
- Step 9: Cheapest route is not always the cheapest trip
- Step 10: Build the trip around experiences that are hardest to replace
- Step 11: Everyday does not need to contain a major attraction
- Step 12: Build around family energy
- Step 13: Accept that the plan will change
- What we would do differently
- FAQ
We were not planning one holiday
The first thing we had to accept was that South America is simply too large and diverse to approach as though we were planning a conventional family holiday. We were not choosing one resort and spending two weeks nearby. We were effectively planning several different trips that had to work together as one.
The Atacama Desert was one kind of experience. Cusco and the Sacred Valley were another. Machu Picchu was another. The Amazon changed the entire rhythm again. Then came São Paulo, the Pantanal and the very different environment of Jericoacoara. Each destination had its own practical requirements: different weather, different altitudes, different transport, different activities, different levels of physical effort, and different things our children would enjoy.
That meant our planning question became: how do we connect all these experiences without making the entire trip exhausting? That became the foundation for every decision that followed.
If you have not yet worked out your own route, our guide to planning a South America family trip from Australia covers the decision tools we used to choose destinations in the first place. This article picks up from there and focuses on turning that plan into a working, bookable sequence.
Step 1: We started with the experiences we wanted, not the flights
One of the easiest mistakes when planning a complicated international family trip is to start with whatever flight combination happens to look cheapest. We approached it differently. We started by asking what we actually wanted our children to experience.
For us, wildlife was a major part of the answer. We wanted to experience the Amazon and see the Pantanal, with our children encountering wildlife in environments where animals were part of the natural landscape rather than behind glass. We also wanted the children to experience the extraordinary landscapes of the Atacama Desert, explore the Cusco region and Sacred Valley, visit Machu Picchu and experience the cultural and historical depth of Peru.
Once we knew the experiences we cared about, we could begin building the route around them. We were not asking “where can we go?” We were asking “what do we want this trip to mean for our family?” That question helped us decide which destinations deserved the time, effort and travel days required to reach them.
Step 2: We built the route around the geography
South America looks deceptively simple on a map. The countries appear connected, but distances are enormous, and a route that looks logical geographically may not be straightforward once you start looking at actual flights and connections.
Our eventual journey became Sydney, Santiago, the Atacama, Santiago, Cusco, the Sacred Valley, Machu Picchu, the Amazon, São Paulo, the Pantanal, Jericoacoara, Santiago and home to Sydney. This was not a simple straight line. There was backtracking, connecting flights, airport transfers, and days where the journey itself became a significant part of the experience. But the route was built around the experiences we considered important rather than simply trying to draw the neatest line across a map.
Sydney to Sydney, the long way round
Santiago appears twice as a transfer point and once, at the very end of the return leg, as a genuine stop. Treating those as different things, rather than counting Santiago three times as a “destination”, is part of why this route was more manageable than it looks on paper.
The broad structure was Australia to Chile, entering South America through Santiago before continuing to the Atacama Desert; then Peru, travelling through Cusco, the Sacred Valley and Machu Picchu before heading into the Amazon region around Puerto Maldonado; then Brazil, continuing to São Paulo, then towards the Pantanal, before eventually making our way to Jericoacoara in the northeast; and finally Chile again, returning through Santiago before the long journey home. This became our geographical framework. Only after we had this broad structure did we start filling in the details.
Step 3: We asked whether each destination earned its place
Every additional destination has a cost. Not just money. It costs time, energy, packing and unpacking, airport transfers, waiting, check-ins, check-outs, potential delays and, when you have children, patience.
So we had to ask ourselves a difficult question about every destination: is this place worth the travel required to get there? This became particularly important because we were travelling with children. A destination that might be an easy addition for two adults can become a completely different proposition for a family. An additional flight might mean waking children before dawn, getting everyone dressed and packed, travelling to the airport, navigating check-in, waiting, flying, collecting luggage, transferring to accommodation, checking in and unpacking again. By the time you arrive, you may have lost most of the day.
So our planning process was not simply about adding destinations. It was about weighing the experience gained against the travel burden created. Some places earned their place immediately. Others required much more consideration.
How we weighed our own destinations
| Destination | Experience value | Travel burden | Family energy cost | Would we regret removing it? |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Amazon (Puerto Maldonado) | High: wildlife unavailable elsewhere on the route | High: remote access, multiple connections | High | Yes |
| Pantanal | High: different wildlife experience to the Amazon | High: long ground transfers | High | Yes |
| Machu Picchu & Sacred Valley | High: culturally central to the Peru leg | Medium to high: altitude, train/transfer logistics | Medium to high | Yes |
| Atacama Desert | High: landscape unlike anything at home | Medium: one internal flight each way from Santiago | Medium | Yes |
| Jericoacoara | Medium to high: coastal recovery after remote travel | Medium: further internal Brazil connection | Low once there | Yes, as a deliberate recovery stretch |
This is our own worked example, not a template to copy. Score your own candidate destinations the same way: a place earns its spot when the experience value clearly outweighs the travel burden and family energy cost, not simply because it is famous.
Step 4: We planned around the children, not just the map
Our children were approximately eight and seven during this trip. That shaped our planning considerably. We could not plan the itinerary as though we were two adults who could simply push through exhaustion whenever necessary.
Children can be incredibly adaptable. They can also reach their limits very suddenly. One moment everyone is excited, the next moment someone is hungry, tired, uncomfortable or simply finished. That meant we had to consider how many consecutive travel days we could manage, how many early mornings were reasonable, how physically demanding activities were, how long children could reasonably spend in transit, whether there was enough variety, whether the itinerary included experiences that genuinely interested them, whether there was time to slow down, and whether we were building memories or simply collecting destinations.
This also influenced the order of experiences. We wanted the trip to have variation: the landscapes changed, the environments changed, the wildlife changed, the cultural experiences changed and the pace changed. That variety helped maintain their interest.
Step 5: We treated altitude as a planning issue, not a footnote
One of the most important planning considerations for our Peru itinerary was altitude. Cusco sits at a significantly higher elevation than many travellers are accustomed to, and current guidance on altitude and health should always be checked through theAustralian Government’s Smartraveller servicebefore finalising an altitude-involved itinerary.
This meant we could not treat Cusco as just another destination on the route. We had to think about the children, how the itinerary flowed, what we would do immediately after arrival, and how much we would expect from everyone during those first days. An itinerary is not simply destination A plus destination B plus destination C. It is: what happens to our family when we move from A to B?
The same principle applied throughout the journey. We were moving between sea-level and high-altitude environments, hot and cold climates, dry desert and humid rainforest, urban environments and remote wilderness, and highly structured tourist experiences alongside more unpredictable wildlife experiences. The itinerary had to account for these transitions.
Step 6: We accepted that climate changes would affect packing
One of the hardest parts of planning South America from Australia was understanding how dramatically the environments could change during one trip. We were not packing for one season. We were packing for multiple worlds: the Atacama required one set of considerations, the highlands around Cusco required another, the Amazon required another, the Pantanal required another, and Jericoacoara introduced yet another environment.
The answer was not to pack everything. It was to build a flexible clothing system using layers that worked across different temperatures, with sun protection, rain cover, cold mornings, warm afternoons, humidity and activities all considered. The children also needed clothing that was practical rather than merely attractive, because once you start moving frequently, every unnecessary item becomes something you have to carry, organise and eventually repack.
Step 7: We planned the major flights before the smaller details
Once we knew the broad route, we began working backwards through the transport network: the long-haul flights from Australia first, then the international South America connections, then the internal flights, then ground transport, then local transfers.
This order mattered. A multi-country itinerary can quickly become impossible if you book individual segments without looking at the entire chain. An itinerary may appear to work perfectly when viewed one flight at a time, but when you connect everything together you may discover that an arrival occurs too late for the next connection, a flight requires an overnight stay, a transfer takes much longer than expected, an early departure leaves insufficient recovery time, or a missed connection could disrupt multiple subsequent bookings. This is why we found it useful to plan the trip as one interconnected system rather than as a collection of individual bookings.
What has to be locked in before what
Booking out of this order is how families end up locking in an international flight before discovering the connecting internal flight does not exist on the right day, or booking a hotel before realising a wildlife lodge only departs on fixed dates. Every itinerary’s exact dependencies differ; the point is to identify yours before you book anything irreversible.
Step 8: We looked at the entire travel day, not just the flight
This became one of the biggest lessons of our trip. When planning with children, a flight day is rarely just a flight. It can include waking up, breakfast, packing, hotel checkout, transfer, airport arrival, check-in, security, waiting, the flight itself, a connection, a second flight, baggage collection, immigration, a transfer, hotel check-in, unpacking, food and finally sleep.
A flight that appears to take three hours can consume most of a day. A connecting itinerary can consume an entire day, and a difficult connection can affect the following day as well. So when planning our route, we had to think in terms of total door-to-door travel time, and to distinguish between arrival time and usable family time. They are not the same thing.
Flight duration versus the real travel day
3h
the flight itself
What the booking site shows you
Full day
the real travel day
Checkout, transfer, airport time, security, waiting, connection, baggage, immigration, next transfer, check-in
Illustrative, not a claim about a specific flight. The gap between the two is exactly what makes an itinerary that “looks fine” on a spreadsheet feel exhausting in practice, and it is the gap the Travel-Day Load Test in our South America planning guide is designed to expose.
Step 9: We learned that the cheapest route is not always the cheapest trip
This is closely connected to our realSouth America family trip budget. A lower airfare can sometimes create higher overall costs. A cheaper connection may require an additional hotel night, extra meals, airport transfers, additional luggage, more transport, more lost time and greater exhaustion. For a family of four, these costs multiply.
So we did not look at airfare in isolation. We considered the total journey cost. The cheapest flight on a booking website is not necessarily the cheapest way to move your family from one destination to another. The better question is: what is the total cost of this route from our front door to our next usable family day?
Step 10: We built the trip around the experiences that would be hardest to replace
Not every experience carries the same weight. Some activities can be replicated elsewhere. Others are the reason you travelled halfway around the world. For us, the Amazon and Pantanal were major examples. We wanted our children to experience wildlife in a genuinely wild environment, which meant these destinations were not simply interchangeable stops. They influenced the route, the timing, the budget, the internal flights, how we packed and how much time we needed to allow.
The same principle applied to Machu Picchu. Once certain experiences became priorities, the rest of the itinerary had to work around them. A useful approach for any family planning a complicated trip: start with the experiences you would regret missing, then build the practical itinerary around them.
Wildlife experiences were central to why we travelled, but they came with rules we never treated as optional: follow the instructions of qualified local guides and site authorities at all times, and never approach, touch, feed or handle wild animals. Build this into the plan before you arrive, not as a conversation you have standing next to the wildlife itself.
Step 11: We did not try to make every day “worth it”
This may sound strange when you are travelling such a long way, but one of the biggest mistakes families can make is believing that every day has to be maximised. Every day does not need to contain a major attraction, and every day does not need to be an adventure. Some days are simply travel days, some are recovery days, and some are for eating, sleeping and getting everyone ready for what comes next.
This became particularly important on a trip as ambitious as ours. We had to accept that a day spent travelling between destinations was still part of the trip. Trying to squeeze a major activity into every arrival day would have made the itinerary much more exhausting.
Step 12: We built the itinerary around the reality of family energy
We did not have an unlimited supply of energy. Neither did the children. So when we planned the trip, we had to think about family capacity, and specifically about consecutive demanding experiences. A physically demanding excursion followed by a long travel day followed by an early morning is very different from spreading those experiences apart.
This is where itinerary planning becomes less about geography and more about sequencing. You can have a technically perfect route that is a terrible family itinerary. The difference is often the rhythm: a high-energy day, then a travel day, then recovery, then a high-energy experience, then a slower day, then travel again, tends to be more sustainable than stacking several big activities back to back with an early start and another flight squeezed in between. For families, the best itinerary is often not the one that fits the most in. It is the one that allows everyone to enjoy what they have travelled so far to experience.
How the thirteen steps actually fit together
Each stage depends on the one before it. Choosing destinations before knowing your non-negotiables, or booking flights before mapping transitions, is usually where an itinerary starts working against the family instead of for it.
The South America Family Trip Route & Resilience Planner walks through this exact sequence: experience brief, destination earn-your-place test, route builder, transition counter, high-load day detector, recovery planner, booking dependency map and a final resilience test before you commit.
Free instant download · No spam · General travel-planning guidance only · Not medical or professional adviceStep 13: We accepted that the plan would change
No matter how carefully you plan, South America will not always follow your spreadsheet. Flights can change, weather can interfere, connections can become stressful, children can become tired, activities can take longer than expected, and wildlife does not operate on your itinerary. Our own journey included moments where travel did not unfold exactly as smoothly as we had hoped: difficult flight days, challenging connections, moments where we had to move quickly, and experiences affected by weather.
One of the most important lessons was therefore not to create a plan so rigid that the entire trip collapses when one element changes. A good family itinerary needs structure, but it also needs flexibility.
Stress-test the plan before you book it
| If this happens | What could break | What kind of backup helps |
|---|---|---|
| A flight is delayed | The next connection or activity booking | Buffer time between arrival and any fixed commitment |
| An activity is cancelled | A day built entirely around one experience | A lower-effort fallback identified in advance |
| A child becomes unwell | The following day’s fixed plans | At least one flexible, low-commitment day nearby |
| Weather disrupts plans | Weather-dependent experiences with no alternative date | A Plan B activity that does not depend on conditions |
| A connection is missed | Everything booked immediately afterward | Knowing in advance what can be rebooked, delayed or dropped |
You do not need to predict every possible disruption. You need to know where your route is fragile: which bookings depend on which connections, and what happens to the rest of the trip if one link in the chain slips.
What we would do differently next time
Looking back, we would still choose an ambitious South America adventure. The experiences were worth it. But we would also be more conscious of the cumulative effect of constant movement. The biggest question we would ask ourselves next time is not “can we fit this destination in?” It would be “will adding this destination make the rest of the trip better or worse?”
That is a very different question. It forces you to consider the hidden cost of every addition: not just the price, but the time, the fatigue, the logistics, the mental load, the impact on the children, and the possibility that you may enjoy the destination less because you arrived already exhausted.
Our biggest lesson from planning South America with kids
If we had to reduce everything we learned into one principle, it would be this: plan the journey your family can actually enjoy, not the itinerary that looks most impressive on a map.
South America rewards ambitious travel. There is an extraordinary amount to see, but you do not need to see everything. You need to decide what matters most to your family and then build the route around those experiences. For us, that meant combining landscapes, culture, history and wildlife. It meant accepting some complicated travel days because certain experiences were worth the effort, and understanding that a family itinerary is a balancing act between adventure and recovery.
It also meant learning that the most successful trip is not necessarily the one where everything goes exactly according to plan. It is the one where, when something inevitably goes wrong, you have enough flexibility left in the itinerary to keep enjoying the journey.
That is how we approached our multi-country South America adventure from Australia. If you are planning your own family trip, that is probably the best place to start. Do not begin with how many countries you can visit. Begin with the experiences your family will remember for the rest of their lives, then build the journey around them.
What about the deeper planning tools?
The free Route & Resilience Planner above covers the sequence this article walks through. Families who want to take the planning process further, with an expanded booking sequence, family capacity scorecard and itinerary fragility test, may eventually want the South America Family Trip Planning Pack. For a fully connected system spanning route architecture, transport, accommodation, recovery and pre-departure verification, the South America Family Adventure Blueprint is intended to be the deeper, integrated option. Neither product is available for purchase yet. Both remain in production behind their own completion gates, and the free content on this site remains genuinely useful without requiring a purchase.
You do not need another list of destinations. You need a way to sequence the ones you have chosen, count the transitions, protect recovery, and know what to book first. The free South America Family Trip Route & Resilience Planner gives you a structured place to do exactly that.
Free instant download · No spam · General travel-planning guidance only · Not medical or professional adviceFrequently Asked Questions
Where do we start when planning a multi-country South America trip with kids?
Start with the experiences you want your family to have, not with flights or a map. Once you know what genuinely matters, you can decide which destinations earn the travel required to reach them.
Should we book flights or plan the route first?
Establish the broad route and the experiences that anchor it first, then work backward through international flights, internal flights and finally ground transfers, rather than booking individual segments in isolation.
How do we know if we are trying to fit in too much?
Look at the cumulative effect of transitions rather than the number of destinations alone. If nearly every day involves packing, an early start or a flight, the itinerary likely needs simplifying or more recovery built in.
What should we book first on a complex multi-country itinerary?
Trip dates and international flights first, followed by any part of the route with a hard, difficult-to-move sequence, then capacity-constrained experiences and specialist accommodation, then internal flights and transfers, leaving genuinely flexible items for last.
What happens if something goes wrong partway through the trip?
A resilient itinerary is built with enough flexibility that one disruption, such as a delayed flight or a cancelled activity, does not collapse the days that follow. Identify your route’s most fragile connections in advance and know what the fallback is before you need it.


